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How to write for their desires
I started writing copy 6 months ago.
At first, I didn’t understand 80% of the shit they wanted me to do.
But over time as I emerged in this world and hurt my ankle a couple of times, I realized that most of the concepts aren’t some hellish things that couldn’t be understood.
All you need is some basic understanding and practice.
So I did and I would say I made some great progress in 6 months.
But there was always this thing…
Teasing people’s desires.
It sounds so simple. And it is simple(if you know ONE thing).
Yet, I was eternally confused about it.
I just didn’t get it.
Until recently when someone finally explained it to me and the lightbulb finally went off .
He said nothing new. The only thing he did was organize the clutter of thoughts inside my brain about this topic and voila…
My vision was clear.
There are 2 steps to desires:
You HAVE to know them
You just have to know what the hell folks want.
You can’t sell people a fat loss program when they have a 6.5% body fat. You want to sell them a fat loss program when they are 30% body fat.
Then you need to go out and ask them(or find out) what on earth they really want.
You see… This was my mistake.
I had no idea what they wanted.
I always did my research so I knew what they wanted on the surface. But I never dug deep enough, which is a fatal mistake. Usually people don’t even know the deep desires they have, so they can’t even tell you the real reason why they bought a product. Someone just touched on one of their deep desires the right way, and their wallet opened up.
But since I only had some surface desires I was unable to do the second step…
Target them
Give them a picture of a better, faster, more beautiful world than the one they are in right now.
Know what they want and tease them with it.
Let’s be real… If you know what they want - I mean really know - this step is easy.
The first step is where most people fuck up.
They don’t go deep enough. And hey, I don’t blame them. I can’t because I made the same mistake, and sometimes still do.
What tells me when I haven’t gone deep enough?
I get stuck after the basic desires are listed.
Then I need to go back to the drawing board and DO MORE RESEACH.